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Week ‘Seks’ moving with the times: Birds and the bees joined by consent

Ben Hamilton
February 7th, 2022


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Sex & Samfund will this week be doing its best to educate school children that permission to kiss does not necessarily greenlight a sexual act

Not to be confused with the British TV show in which 30-year-olds play teens, thus doing their best to make them insecure about their bodies (photo: Flickr/The People Speak)

Week Six is upon us … or Uge Seks, as they say at the Danish public schools with a knowing wink.

Can’t be a coincidence that Sex & Samfund has chosen this particular week to take over the syllabus with its annual focus on sex education.

Accordingly, Danish school children are a knowing bunch, although there is a new addition this year that some have apparently been struggling with: the notion of consent.

More rape reports last year
Since the beginning of last year, it has been necessary to establish consent before sexual intercourse. 

And just last month, the authorities confirmed that the number of reported rapes has risen – an indication that many had not wanted to have sex but been let down by a law that recognised their silence as a form of consent. 

Nevertheless, according to a Sex & Samfund survey, every fourth person aged 16-29 has expressed doubt about whether they have exceeded boundaries in regard to consent.

READ MORE: Rape cases increased in 2021. Here’s why

Lots to learn
Sex & Samfund is confident the children will be attentive during the classes.

“It is a concept that has received renewed attention due to the new consent law,” explained Sex & Samfund project manager Pernille Ane Egebæk to DR.

“In addition, there have been high #MeToo numbers, which indicate that there are very many people who actually don’t know if are exceeding other people’s boundaries without knowing it.” 

Consent through all the bases
It is perhaps worrying that half of the respondents in the Sex & Samfund survey confessed to giving their consent to something sexual, even if they did not want to.

The onus, therefore, is on the students learning about signals: for example, knowing that consent to a kiss is not greenlighting a sexual act.

Health and sex education is a compulsory subject for all grades at the country’s public schools: so ages six through to 16. 


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Moreover, 21 percent of those surveyed admitted to medicating their kids with paracetamol, such as Panodil, before sending them to school.

The FOLA parents’ organisation is shocked by the findings.

“I think it is absolutely crazy. It simply cannot be that a child goes to school sick and plays with lots of other children. Then we are faced with the fact that they will infect the whole institution,” said FOLA chair Signe Nielsen.

Pill pushers
At the Børnehuset daycare institution in Silkeborg a meeting was called where parents were implored not to bring their sick children to school.

At Børnehuset there are fears that parents prefer to pack their kids off with a pill without informing teachers.

“We occasionally have children who that they have had a pill for breakfast,” said headteacher Susanne Bødker. “You might think that it is a Panodil more than a vitamin pill, if it is a child who has just been sick, for example.”

Parents sick and tired
Parents, when confronted, often cite pressure at work as a reason for not being able to stay at home with their children.

Many declare that they simply cannot take another day off, as they are afraid of being fired.

Allan Randrup Thomsen, a professor of virology at KU, has heavily criticised the parents’ actions, describing the current situation as a “vicious circle”.

“It promotes the spread of viruses, and it adds momentum to a cycle where parents are pressured by high levels of sick-leave. If they then choose to send the children to daycare while they are still recovering, they keep the epidemic going in daycares, and this in turn puts a greater burden on the parents.”