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One in two young Danes deem sugardating as acceptable – survey

Ben Hamilton
March 18th, 2021


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Sugardating not as shadowy as some might think (photo: pxhere.com)

Around 50 percent of Danes aged 18-30 think that sugardating is acceptable, according to a survey carried out by VIVE, the welfare research centre. 

The survey’s results were based on the responses of 1,732 people who took part in a survey called ‘Sugardating among marginalised young people’ in October 2019. In total, 8,000 people were asked to take part. 

In total, 7 percent of the respondents have considered entering a sugardating relationship, which was defined as a young person exchanging sexual intimacy for money or gifts from somebody considerably older, but not acted on it.

VIVE chief analyst Karen Margrethe Dahl, the main author of the report, said the finding showed that “people can be very tolerant of what others do without intending to do the same”. 

Put off by direct nature of men
DR met two such individuals in north Jutland, and both went as far as opening accounts on a site matching young women with middle-aged men.

However, they were quickly put off by the direct nature of the men who tended to get quickly to the point. 

“It was straight to the point and brutal: ‘I want to fuck you’. Although there was also someone who offered to send money if I just wanted to chat with them,” recalled one.

“Many of the men who wrote to me quickly became quite aggressive if I did not respond,” revealed the other.


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A survey carried out by Megafon for TV2 has found that 71 percent of parents have handed over children to daycare in spite of them being sick.

Moreover, 21 percent of those surveyed admitted to medicating their kids with paracetamol, such as Panodil, before sending them to school.

The FOLA parents’ organisation is shocked by the findings.

“I think it is absolutely crazy. It simply cannot be that a child goes to school sick and plays with lots of other children. Then we are faced with the fact that they will infect the whole institution,” said FOLA chair Signe Nielsen.

Pill pushers
At the Børnehuset daycare institution in Silkeborg a meeting was called where parents were implored not to bring their sick children to school.

At Børnehuset there are fears that parents prefer to pack their kids off with a pill without informing teachers.

“We occasionally have children who that they have had a pill for breakfast,” said headteacher Susanne Bødker. “You might think that it is a Panodil more than a vitamin pill, if it is a child who has just been sick, for example.”

Parents sick and tired
Parents, when confronted, often cite pressure at work as a reason for not being able to stay at home with their children.

Many declare that they simply cannot take another day off, as they are afraid of being fired.

Allan Randrup Thomsen, a professor of virology at KU, has heavily criticised the parents’ actions, describing the current situation as a “vicious circle”.

“It promotes the spread of viruses, and it adds momentum to a cycle where parents are pressured by high levels of sick-leave. If they then choose to send the children to daycare while they are still recovering, they keep the epidemic going in daycares, and this in turn puts a greater burden on the parents.”