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Divorce courses become obligatory for Danish parents splitting up

Christian Wenande
December 10th, 2018


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Couples will have to sit down for 30 minutes for the benefit of the children

No so easy as of April 1 (photo: Pixabay)

This coming April 1 there will once again be a good stream of elaborately-concocted stories in the national newspapers, thanks to it being April Fool’s Day.

But something else will also happen that day.

It will be the day that a new law comes into effect that means Danish parents seeking divorce will have to go through an obligatory course first.

The course, entitled ‘Samarbejde Efter Skilsmisse’ (‘Co-operation After Divorce’) will last 30 minutes and force parents to think about how a divorce looks from the perspective of their children and how to best communicate with their soon-to-be ex-partners.

READ MORE: Children the focus of new system to tackle divorces

No shot-gun splits
Should parents not complete the course, they will not be able to become divorced officially.

According to researchers from the University of Copenhagen, prospective divorcees who take the course feel better in 12 out of every 14 cases – suffering from fewer panic and depression symptoms, as well as missing less work.

The divorce course is part of the comprehensive divorce agreement agreed unanimously by Parliament in March this year.

The agreement stipulated that parents cannot get divorced immediately anymore, but must go through a three-month ‘reflection period’ first – during which they take the SES course.

“It’s important that we do everything we can to get the kids through their parents’ split as well as possible,” said the children and social minister, Mai Mercado.


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A survey carried out by Megafon for TV2 has found that 71 percent of parents have handed over children to daycare in spite of them being sick.

Moreover, 21 percent of those surveyed admitted to medicating their kids with paracetamol, such as Panodil, before sending them to school.

The FOLA parents’ organisation is shocked by the findings.

“I think it is absolutely crazy. It simply cannot be that a child goes to school sick and plays with lots of other children. Then we are faced with the fact that they will infect the whole institution,” said FOLA chair Signe Nielsen.

Pill pushers
At the Børnehuset daycare institution in Silkeborg a meeting was called where parents were implored not to bring their sick children to school.

At Børnehuset there are fears that parents prefer to pack their kids off with a pill without informing teachers.

“We occasionally have children who that they have had a pill for breakfast,” said headteacher Susanne Bødker. “You might think that it is a Panodil more than a vitamin pill, if it is a child who has just been sick, for example.”

Parents sick and tired
Parents, when confronted, often cite pressure at work as a reason for not being able to stay at home with their children.

Many declare that they simply cannot take another day off, as they are afraid of being fired.

Allan Randrup Thomsen, a professor of virology at KU, has heavily criticised the parents’ actions, describing the current situation as a “vicious circle”.

“It promotes the spread of viruses, and it adds momentum to a cycle where parents are pressured by high levels of sick-leave. If they then choose to send the children to daycare while they are still recovering, they keep the epidemic going in daycares, and this in turn puts a greater burden on the parents.”