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Relatives of dementia sufferers often buckle with stress and depression

Stephen Gadd
February 28th, 2018


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When someone in the family is diagnosed as having dementia, it is often not only that person who shows signs of sickness

It can be extremely depressing to see a loved one slipping away (photo: pixabay/geralt)

A new report from the Danish Alzheimer’s society, Alzheimerforeningen, has collected data from 1,600 family members of dementia sufferers.

The findings reveal that 73 percent of these family members have experienced negative impacts on their own health as a consequence of being related to someone with the disease, reports DR Nyheder.

The symptoms reported are especially a lack of sleep, but can also include stress, depression and insecurity.

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Many relatives are still in full-time employment or have young children at the same time as trying to cope with a relative with dementia.

The strain of being on call
They may often have to be on standby to provide practical help during the day. On top of that, they also have to come to terms with the fact the person they knew and loved is gradually slipping away.

“It’s a full-time job being a relative [to someone with dementia]. A lot of people are on call 24/7,” said Karen Tannebæk, the head of training at the Danish dementia research centre.

“We often hear of relatives who are called up to 15 times during a 24-hour period, spouses who are woken up many times during the night, or people who just have to stay home to ensure that everyday life runs smoothly.”

The consequence can be that the relatives cut themselves off from activities that could be beneficial to them and end up having a breakdown themselves.

“If you are a spouse and begin to have symptoms of stress or depression, then you can’t be there for the other person any longer,” said Tannebæk.

More support needed
The head of the Alzheimer’s society, Nis Peter Nissen, would like to see more support for relatives in the form of a specific contact person at the municipality who would see what their precise needs are.

“The way in which individual families are affected by someone with dementia is very different; it is important to know each family and the challenges they face,” he added.

There may be hope in sight because  Danish politicians earmarked 470 million kroner in 2016 for a dementia action plan. This was to be used over the next eight years on a number of initiatives that include more support for relatives.


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A survey carried out by Megafon for TV2 has found that 71 percent of parents have handed over children to daycare in spite of them being sick.

Moreover, 21 percent of those surveyed admitted to medicating their kids with paracetamol, such as Panodil, before sending them to school.

The FOLA parents’ organisation is shocked by the findings.

“I think it is absolutely crazy. It simply cannot be that a child goes to school sick and plays with lots of other children. Then we are faced with the fact that they will infect the whole institution,” said FOLA chair Signe Nielsen.

Pill pushers
At the Børnehuset daycare institution in Silkeborg a meeting was called where parents were implored not to bring their sick children to school.

At Børnehuset there are fears that parents prefer to pack their kids off with a pill without informing teachers.

“We occasionally have children who that they have had a pill for breakfast,” said headteacher Susanne Bødker. “You might think that it is a Panodil more than a vitamin pill, if it is a child who has just been sick, for example.”

Parents sick and tired
Parents, when confronted, often cite pressure at work as a reason for not being able to stay at home with their children.

Many declare that they simply cannot take another day off, as they are afraid of being fired.

Allan Randrup Thomsen, a professor of virology at KU, has heavily criticised the parents’ actions, describing the current situation as a “vicious circle”.

“It promotes the spread of viruses, and it adds momentum to a cycle where parents are pressured by high levels of sick-leave. If they then choose to send the children to daycare while they are still recovering, they keep the epidemic going in daycares, and this in turn puts a greater burden on the parents.”