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Danish children calling suicide hotline more frequently

Christian Wenande
February 12th, 2016


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BørneTelefonen took twice as many calls regarding suicide last year

BørneTelefonen helped more than 43,000 children and adults last year (photo: Børns Vilkår)

The number of calls made by children to the suicide hotline BørneTelefonen has doubled in just five years, according to child welfare advocates Børns Vilkår.

Some 1,107 children called BørneTelefonen in 2015 with suicidal thoughts, which is almost twice as many as in 2011. For the first time, suicidal thoughts/attempts is in the top 10 subjects that children call BørneTelefonen about, while sexual violation ranked at number seven.

“Some tell gruesome stories of sexual abuse and physical violence in their homes that have manifested within the child,” said Mikkel Balslev, the head of BørneTelefonen.

“The kids describe – perhaps for the first time – what they’ve been subjected to in their call to BørneTelefonen. If it’s abuse, the child will be offered an assessor from Børns Vilkår who will support the child in getting help from the municipality.”

READ MORE: Suicide prevention lifeline gets funding to stay open at night

Love hurts the most
According to Balslev, the children’s dark thoughts are typically down to loneliness, bullying and being let down or failed by their closest loved ones.

Matters of the heart was the top reason why children called BørneTelefonen with 15.2 percent, followed by friendship issues, parent/child issues, teasing and sexual activity.

Bullying, development of the body, sexual violation, pregnancy, prevention and STDs, and suicidal thoughts/attempts completed the top 10.

In total, BørneTelefonen helped more than 43,000 children or adults last year – an increase of nearly 5,000 compared to 2014.


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Moreover, 21 percent of those surveyed admitted to medicating their kids with paracetamol, such as Panodil, before sending them to school.

The FOLA parents’ organisation is shocked by the findings.

“I think it is absolutely crazy. It simply cannot be that a child goes to school sick and plays with lots of other children. Then we are faced with the fact that they will infect the whole institution,” said FOLA chair Signe Nielsen.

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At the Børnehuset daycare institution in Silkeborg a meeting was called where parents were implored not to bring their sick children to school.

At Børnehuset there are fears that parents prefer to pack their kids off with a pill without informing teachers.

“We occasionally have children who that they have had a pill for breakfast,” said headteacher Susanne Bødker. “You might think that it is a Panodil more than a vitamin pill, if it is a child who has just been sick, for example.”

Parents sick and tired
Parents, when confronted, often cite pressure at work as a reason for not being able to stay at home with their children.

Many declare that they simply cannot take another day off, as they are afraid of being fired.

Allan Randrup Thomsen, a professor of virology at KU, has heavily criticised the parents’ actions, describing the current situation as a “vicious circle”.

“It promotes the spread of viruses, and it adds momentum to a cycle where parents are pressured by high levels of sick-leave. If they then choose to send the children to daycare while they are still recovering, they keep the epidemic going in daycares, and this in turn puts a greater burden on the parents.”