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Parents of autistic children feel violated by public employees

Lucie Rychla
August 4th, 2015


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Consequently, many of them have gone down with stress or depression

Parents of autistic children in Denmark feel badly treated and often violated by employees in the public sector, reports DR.

Municipalities: autists are parasites
A survey carried out by Landsforeningen Autisme (Danish association for autism) shows more than half of the interviewed members feel mistreated when dealing with the public system.

“In recent years, we have noticed municipalities use words like ‘explosive expenses’, ‘parasitic’ and ‘spoiled’ when describing severely disabled autistic people,” stated Heidi Thamestrup, the head of Landsforeningen Autisme.

More than 75 percent of the 1,200 interviewed stated they have experienced psychological problems such as stress, anxiety and depression as a result of their dealings with the public sector.

Can’t take it anymore
One of the parents, Tina Hedensted from Skanderborg, who for years fought for the right to get relief assistance and to send her autistic son to a special school, is among those suffering from stress.

“Some nights I lie thinking that I should just throw in the towel and move Victor to a residential institution, because I just cannot manage the hassle anymore,” unemployed Hedensted admitted.

More than a third of the interviewed parents have either been laid off, fired or quit their jobs themselves.


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A survey carried out by Megafon for TV2 has found that 71 percent of parents have handed over children to daycare in spite of them being sick.

Moreover, 21 percent of those surveyed admitted to medicating their kids with paracetamol, such as Panodil, before sending them to school.

The FOLA parents’ organisation is shocked by the findings.

“I think it is absolutely crazy. It simply cannot be that a child goes to school sick and plays with lots of other children. Then we are faced with the fact that they will infect the whole institution,” said FOLA chair Signe Nielsen.

Pill pushers
At the Børnehuset daycare institution in Silkeborg a meeting was called where parents were implored not to bring their sick children to school.

At Børnehuset there are fears that parents prefer to pack their kids off with a pill without informing teachers.

“We occasionally have children who that they have had a pill for breakfast,” said headteacher Susanne Bødker. “You might think that it is a Panodil more than a vitamin pill, if it is a child who has just been sick, for example.”

Parents sick and tired
Parents, when confronted, often cite pressure at work as a reason for not being able to stay at home with their children.

Many declare that they simply cannot take another day off, as they are afraid of being fired.

Allan Randrup Thomsen, a professor of virology at KU, has heavily criticised the parents’ actions, describing the current situation as a “vicious circle”.

“It promotes the spread of viruses, and it adds momentum to a cycle where parents are pressured by high levels of sick-leave. If they then choose to send the children to daycare while they are still recovering, they keep the epidemic going in daycares, and this in turn puts a greater burden on the parents.”