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Youngsters yearn for closer relationships with their parents

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February 2nd, 2015


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Young people want their folks to take more of an interest in their lives

Young people in Denmark struggle with stress, loneliness, sleep issues, depression and bullying, according to the results of several research projects carried out last year. However, the youngsters say that parental guidance would go a long way to helping them overcome their issues.

A new YouGov survey for Politiken newspaper showed that 80 percent of those aged 15-25 said that more parental interest would be a 'good' or 'really good' way to help the troubled young people.

”The young people miss close contact with their parents,” Marianne Lomholt, the head of sexual rights organisation Sex & Samfund, told Politiken.

”A space where they can speak about the things they are going through – about their feelings, the development of their bodies, their limits and general well-being. The emotional aspect and thoughts of identity and 'who am I?' is very important to the young people.”

READ MORE: Tens of thousands of young people are without education

Parents over schools
Some 35 percent of those asked in the survey said that the best preventative measure was for parents to speak to their children about how they were doing.

Far fewer thought it was more important that the issues were dealt with in school, either by teachers or counsellors.


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A survey carried out by Megafon for TV2 has found that 71 percent of parents have handed over children to daycare in spite of them being sick.

Moreover, 21 percent of those surveyed admitted to medicating their kids with paracetamol, such as Panodil, before sending them to school.

The FOLA parents’ organisation is shocked by the findings.

“I think it is absolutely crazy. It simply cannot be that a child goes to school sick and plays with lots of other children. Then we are faced with the fact that they will infect the whole institution,” said FOLA chair Signe Nielsen.

Pill pushers
At the Børnehuset daycare institution in Silkeborg a meeting was called where parents were implored not to bring their sick children to school.

At Børnehuset there are fears that parents prefer to pack their kids off with a pill without informing teachers.

“We occasionally have children who that they have had a pill for breakfast,” said headteacher Susanne Bødker. “You might think that it is a Panodil more than a vitamin pill, if it is a child who has just been sick, for example.”

Parents sick and tired
Parents, when confronted, often cite pressure at work as a reason for not being able to stay at home with their children.

Many declare that they simply cannot take another day off, as they are afraid of being fired.

Allan Randrup Thomsen, a professor of virology at KU, has heavily criticised the parents’ actions, describing the current situation as a “vicious circle”.

“It promotes the spread of viruses, and it adds momentum to a cycle where parents are pressured by high levels of sick-leave. If they then choose to send the children to daycare while they are still recovering, they keep the epidemic going in daycares, and this in turn puts a greater burden on the parents.”